of orientation change but more the sense that, for those who wanted to follow Christ, an ex-gay life was possible. I also met ex-gays who were single. Some were open to a romantic relationship with someone of the opposite sex. Others, often those who had been engaged in the journey for some years, were quite honest about the reality of their ongoing same-sex attraction and had seemingly come to a place of peace with living a single life. These friends’ lives reinforced my convictions that heterosexual